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How should I address co-parenting issues during the holidays?

On Behalf of | Nov 12, 2019 | child custody | 0 comments

While the holidays usually involve families coming together, this time of year can be tough for divorced couples. This is especially true for divorced couples with children, who will need to navigate scheduling conflicts in a way that best benefits their kids. U.S. News & World Report offers the following tips to ensure you, your ex, and your children can enjoy a pleasant holiday season.

Don’t wait until the last minute to plan for the holidays. Instead, sit down with your former spouse and work out a plan as soon as possible so that everyone is on the same page. A holiday co-parenting plan should include logistical concerns, like when and where a child will be picked up and dropped off, as well as which holidays your children will spend with either parent. You should also talk about what to do if plans changes, as is likely to happen during the hectic holiday season.

Once your plan is created, make sure your children are well aware of how it will play out. After divorce kids often feel unsure, and involving them in plans helps them to acclimate to the changes that have occurred. If kids are older, you can even consider involving them in the actual planning stage.

Finally, don’t let past resentments or clashes get in the way of doing what’s best for your children. While you’re likely hurt or angry about your divorce, your children still deserve to have a relationship with both parents. If you’re having issues regarding your ex-spouse civilly, keep the focus on your children and make decisions that are in their best interest.